Ngikhumbula eneminyaka engu- 13, Ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa ngase ayesenqotshwe izingcingo of Mother Nature – isikhathi sami sokuqala weza – omunye wabangane umama wami wangibizela egumbini eliphilayo sokukhuluma nami ngento 'okubaluleke'. Wayelindile kwaze indodana yakhe esephumile ukudlala nanjengesihlekehleke isalukazi Paranoid, bolted umnyango ngokuxhamazela ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi iketango ukuphepha emnyango kwaba uvalwe fixed ukugwema noma iyiphi iziphazamiso okungafunwa.

Waqala nge, 'Wena manje indlela yakho ukuze abe owesifazane okhule ngokugcwele, futhi ngaphambi wenza ukuthi kukhona izinto ezithile ukuba umama wakho wangicela ukuba ngikutshele. 'Kukhona saba imizuzu amathathu, Ubuso bami kancane kuphenduke umthunzi mucky of green njengoba yayichaza inqubo labia kwentambo noma Kinyarwanda: Gukuna Imishino / Guca Imyeyo. I imyeyo term guca nezwi lisho 'ukusika imishanelo’ – Amantombazane wayevame ukuphuma in otshanini in a group, futhi lapho ebuzwa ukuthi babeyaphi kwakuyodingeka impendulo ukuthi bephuma ehlathini ukuze ufune notshani, okuyinto babengeke ibe imishanelo. Nakuba amadoda bayazi mayelana mkhuba Manje, ngokwesiko babengavunyelwe wayesho ukwazi, okuyinto kungani ekhuphuka nge igama ahloniphekile for Labia kwentambo.

guca imyeyo nezwi lisho (ukusika imishanelo in Kinyarwanda)

African Sex Culture | Labia kwentambo (Gukuna Imishino)

Kulabo abazi, kuyinqubo lapho intombazane ubani yokuthomba yakhe isigaba kahle ukudansela isiginci sakhe labia anguye ngaphakathi outwards (kude emzimbeni wakhe) ngokusebenzisa amandla phezu kwabo usebenzisa amakhambi ekhethekile yiziphi amantombazane ziqeqeshwa ukufuna ngoba otshanini baseRwanda – la enze womabili njengoba ukuphila kube mnandi futhi ukwenza labia bandisa kancane ngakho kulula ngiyothatha. Nokho kulabo bethu abangaphandle Rwanda, thina belulekwa ukusebenzisa uthambise unfragranced, nobe lutho nhlobo. Nsuku zonke for 10-20 imizuzu girls idonse sonke lesikhathi ubude labia kusuka phezulu kuya phansi ukuze kuthi ngemva simise kwabo jikelele ihlala ingashintshiwe ngenkathi, kodwa protrusion kwabo ngalé yangaphandle labia ukwenyuka; le nemicikilisho nsuku zonke kukuhambele waze waba mdala, amanye ethwele ngisho nalapho sebeshadile.

Kamuva ngalobo busuku njengoba Ngalinda sokulala ukuzikisa me I replayed amazwi engqondweni yami - Ngangingakaze isikhathi ukubuza ukuthi kungani lokhu kwakudinga ngami nangenxa kabani injongo kwaba. Ngase ukumane utshele yini kwaba futhi kwakumelwe kwenziwe njani. Ngangizizwa ingasebenza grossed out, kwakungenzeka kanjani bayangibuza baphendukezele shape of amagugu ami, ingasaphathwa uhlale khona ebuka ngokwami ​​phansi khona? I nje wafaka le ngemuva wengqondo yami; kwakungekho ndlela I wayeya ukuzivumelanisa kulo mkhuba nenhlamba!

Eminyakeni eyishumi kamuva lapho ohambweni in Brussels, Kwadingeka ingxoxo nomngane wami owayesanda nje bevela Rwanda lapho naphezu amathonya ezinkulu Western, umkhuba namanje kakhulu bephila. Wachaza ezinye izigcawu pretty ezicindezelayo lapho amantombazane ezikoleni boarding ahlale zilandelana ezibhekene nomunye futhi zidonsa labia nomunye ngesikhathi ekubambeni up on the gossip yakamuva. Kimi nje kwakuzwakala a scene from an film X angcolile kepha engangikufundisiwe ukungalokothi inselelo amagugu ethu emasiko endaweni yomphakathi, kanjalo Ngathula. Muva, Ngilalele uhlelo lomsakazo eRwanda okwangenza ngiqonde labia kwentambo kangcono futhi kungani izigcawu ezifana kuchazwe ngu umngane wami kwakujwayelekile. Le sexperts on the show, wachaza ukuthi lapho amantombazane wadonsa labia yabo iqembu, it nje kuphela wabanika umuzwa okuqondene kodwa naye wabasiza ukuba bazi ukuthi kwakungeyona into kwakumelwe babe namahloni. Ukwedlula, yayisiza amantombazane ukuthola snippet we ubumnandi kwakuyodingeka bazizwe nabayeni babo uma kokushada.

Ngokuphambene nenkolelo ukuthi e-Afrika, sex ngokuvamile umuntu ukugibela phezulu wesifazane ukwenza ibhizinisi lakhe futhi ahone once yayo phezu; e Rwanda sex yinqubo namadoda kulindeleke ukwenza omkawo Orgasm (kurangiza) kanye ejaculate (kunyaza). Neze lokho I athini umsebenzi minute eyishumi. Labia kwentambo kuthiwa ukwenza lolu lula ukuze kuzuzwe ngoba lapho izindebe kukhona eside kunjalo kulula adonse futhi adlale ngesikhathi Xmas, bona ngokugcwele ingaphezulu ipipi futhi kubangele friction nakakhulu phakathi Ukungena nangenxa nabesifazane, kuleyo ndawo liba sensitive ngisho nakakhulu ngenxa edonsa futhi kanjalo, isenzo ngokushaya ipipi ezindebeni zakhe kuzokwenza wakhe ukuba ejaculate.

Ngokwalesi sizathu, owesifazane ngosuku lwayo lomshado unikezwa mat ekhethekile (ikirago / umusambi) okuyinto yena isebenzisa ukuvikela umantilasi wangakubo ezingcolile uma beziphatha ocansini nomyeni wakhe. It zazingakaze zenzeke kimi ukuthi kahle kufuze banana fibre amacansi ukuthi Ngabona omakoti abaningi eRwanda zithola njengoba izipho babekhona leyo njongo. Bengicabanga bona zazisetshenziselwa into efanayo sendlala wona ekhaya; ngiseyingane incekukazi yethu kwakuyoba ukusakaza mat ngaphansi komthunzi kwesihlahla ukwatapheya ngenkathi ilanga kwaba hot kakhulu futhi siyobe bedla ngoMgqibelo kwasemini yethu. Little enza I azi!

Ikirago / Umusambi (Mat Special)

A documentary ukuthi yathathwa eRwanda futhi broadcasted eCanada wabiza Le SEXE (Around the World) wakhuluma ezihlukahlukene abesifazane baseRwanda mayelana lomkhuba kwamasiko nokuthi bazizwa kanjani ngalo; kuyilapho abesifazane abadala futhi kancane abafundile kwaba okuthile bathi awulokothi ukungabaza futhi ngokuqinisekile bakhuthaza amadodakazi abo ukuba enze kanjalo lokuthi babengeke bakwazi ukuthola umyeni futhi engalethi ngamahloni umndeni; owesifazane wanamuhla abafundile wathi yize kwadingeka izinzuzo zalo, owesifazane wahluleka ejaculate is kusolwe by umyeni, futhi kungenziwa bahlukunyezwe ngazo phambi kontanga yakhe futhi ngezinye izikhathi baxoshwa ekhaya lakhe somshado. Kodwa like wonke mkhuba kwamasiko, ine womabili positives yayo kanye ezingezinhle ngakho asikwazi ukudonsa uboya phezu kwamehlo ethu futhi asilahle ngaphandle kokucabangela ngokucophelela zombili izinhlangothi.

Labia edonsa akuyona umkhuba omusha futhi ingabe nje kwenziwe Rwanda; kokuba kwenziwe kancane kancane ucwaningo, Ngathola ukuthi kukhona alotshwa evela kubantu abathi yabesifazane nge labia side ekuqaleni kwekhulu le-19, uMuntu edume kakhulu Saartjie Sarah '’ Baartman (The Hottentot Venus) waseNingizimu Afrika. Yena walethwa phezu eYurophu in 1810 futhi kwaba umbukiso e-yezinyoni in Piccadilly Circus futhi kamuva eParis kuya ababukele ejabulile owayefuna ukubona ezinqeni zakhe omkhulu futhi Izitho zangasese.

Sarah "Saartjie’ Baartman (The Hottentot Venus)

Ibhayisikobho izingxoxo okungahleliwe nabanye besifazane African, Ngafunda ukuthi ibuye kwenziwe Zimbabwe, Zambia and South Africa. Nakuba kungekho ubufakazi bokuthi wezokwelapha ukuba owesifazane labia side, ine nokwaneliseka ngokocansi ngaphezu owesifazane avamile – umthamo abesifazane wanelisekile aseRwanda esiqinisekayo ubufakazi ukuthi mhlawumbe abesifazane emhlabeni wonke kudingeka uqale edonsa izindebe zabo ukuze ukwelapha orgasms.Rwanda inkohliso uye wenza intuthuko emihle kakhulu mayelana nabesifazane amandla; babenalo ezingeni eliphakeme ukumelwa female ephalamende emhlabeni futhi benza okuningi kakhulu phansi ukuvala igebe ukuthi ubulili. Kubukeka sengathi angase futhi abe abesifazane abaningi anelisekile yobulili emhlabeni, kanjani ngalokho? Abesifazane ngokobulili amandla e-Afrika – ukugembula nawe ngicabange sex, Amandla, wesifazane Afrika babengase bafake emshweni efanayo.

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3 imibono

  1. Gracie

    Ngiyajabula ukwazi ukuthi abesifazane efana uSara 'Saartjie' Baartman wayekwenza leli siko kudala.
    Ukuze ufunde of inhlangano ukuthi ubulili amandla abesifazane e-Afrika, esikhundleni salokho
    imikhuba of enyantisa igazi like female Lo mkhuba elimaza kubo
    enamandla. Ingxenye akubanga emihle kangaka kwaba mayelana abesifazane abaqhuba
    labia kwentambo ukuze indoda futhi kanjani abanye bangahlazeka
    wasola ngenxa yokungabi i Orgasm. Kodwa onjengawe uthe zonke mkhuba yamasiko ine womabili emihle futhi
    engakhi ngakho asikwazi ukudonsa uboya phezu kwamehlo ethu futhi asilahle ngaphandle
    Ukuhlola ngokucophelela zombili izinhlangothi. Ngiyabonga kakhulu salokhu lefundziwe ukuqonda.

  2. Maggie MacAskill

    Ukusoka Female is on par with ukusokwa kwabesilisa. Nakuba angizange ziye basokwe indodana yami, futhi musa ngempela ukusekela ukuhlinzwa plastic enezingane, Ngicabanga ethemini “Female zangasese lokusoka” kuyinto Eurocentric.

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