Ukuqaliswa The Sambia Tribe esuka Boyz Emadodeni

Emphakathini wanamuhla, kumele siqaphele indlela esibheka futhi iveza izenzo namasiko njengoba ngenxa yokunganaki ethu kanye conditioning njengoba abakhileyo West, okuyinto esindayo kuthonywa-mbono Eurocentric, sithambekele ukusilahla izinto ongawajwayele kithi noma kungase sibabone ukuba 'ngesihluku. "Njengoba sesibonile umkhuba female ukusoka zangasese, kunesidingo esiqhubekayo uthuthuva phakathi nalokho abaningi kithi sikucabange imikhuba ngonya futhi lokho okungase kubhekwe njengendlela abanye ngokuthi "engcwele imikhuba yamasiko." Inkinga ihlangana kahle uma thina ngabanye sinomthwalo ukuhlola kanye ijaji ngokwethu lokho imikhuba kufanele avikelwe futhi ngenxa ukubaluleka kwamasiko futhi yiziphi imikhuba okufanele uthathwa ngonya kungakhathaliseki ukubaluleka kwamasiko.

Kunjalo umkhuba masculinisation njengoba iqhutshwa by the Sambia Tribe ePapua New Guinea. Lo mkhuba, oluwuphawu of rite a young boy sika vesi ebudodeni, iqala lapho umfana ephakathi kuka- 6 to 10 futhi zihlanganisa 6 izigaba. Kubaluleka izinqubo nokufundisa emcimbini wokuqala umqondo wokuthi abesifazane kungaba yingozi amadoda. Ukuze ube umuntu, futhi empeleni a "warrior,"Lezi zinsizwa zifundiswa kanjani ahlukanisa ngokwabo konina kanye nabesifazane emhlabeni kubo njengoba yokubonisa ukuthi bangaphila ngaphandle kwabo futhi afakazele abesilisa ababhekwa yabo.

Inqubo eziyisithupha sigaba kokuqinisa ebudodeni komuntu kungathatha isikhathi esisukela 10 to 15 Eminyakeni kuze lezi zinsizwa ubeletha umntwana. Okunengi emizameni nokuqeqeshwa ephawula ngalokho abanye abaye uthathwa ukuba kakhulu eroticized futhi ngokocansi. In the izigaba zokuqala, induku ebukhali kamoba khadi kakhulu emakhaleni the young boy aze kuchitheka igazi kakhulu. Abafana abancane babuye betfulelwe ukuba amabutho esezikhulakhulile batshelwa ukuthi Bachelors bazoya 'copulate' nabo ukubenza sikhule. Phakathi nengxenye enkulu 6 izigaba, isenzo kokuba induku kamoba ufakwa emakhaleni kanye nokusebenza "fallatio" eziyingxenye esemqoka inqubo yokuba umuntu. Nakuba lo mkhuba wangaphambili ngokuvamile usulu abaningi ngokuthi "ngonya" futhi yokugcina kuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi 'zobungqingili "ukuziphatha, ukuqonda the Sambia kanye ngenjongo lezi izinqubo ezimbili yehlukile ukuqonda kwethu ezivamile.

Nakuba abaningi bethu bengase babheke umkhuba ufaka stick zikamoba zibalelwa emakhaleni ngokuthi "ngonya,"Ngenxa infliction ezisobala ubuhlungu kanye ukulimala emzimbeni, ngoba Sambia luwuphawu amandla nekhono lakhe ukuze asekele ubuhlungu, okuyinto kuyimfuneko edingekayo of a iqhawe. Ukwengeza, isenzo kokwenza fellatio kanye nesenzo yizibuko ephuza ibonakala njengengxenye ebalulekile zobunsizwa ngoba abafana abakwazi ikhula ibe amadoda uma bengazange zigwinye isidoda futhi banamathele embonweni wokuthi wonke amadoda abe, "Badla umthondo". Ngokusho Sambia inkolelo, isidoda of a omuntu "umoya bendoda,"Intsha abafana ngeke bakwazi ukuzuza ngokusebenzisa Ukungenisa yakhe isidoda.

Kungakhathaliseki siqu izinkolelo zethu siqu kanye nokuqonda ngalezi imikhuba, kubalulekile ukuthi singabantwana okungenani uyabazi ubunzima nenjongo yabo. Ngokwesibonelo, kuyilapho abaningi bethu bangase umaka lezi zinsizwa nabafana "ongqingili 'ngomqondo wokuthi banesifiso phakade amadoda ngaphandle isidingo noma isifiso sokuba owesifazane, once baye sekudlule rite kwabo passage ebudodeni ungaqondile, beshada nabesifazane futhi babe obaba. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukusondelana ngokocansi ehambisana ukuqonda kwethu ezivamile ngobungqingili akukho khona. Kunalokho, umkhuba ivezwa edingekayo futhi ebalulekile yokuba umuntu.

Kuyohlala imikhuba yamasiko abaningi kithi abakwazi ukuqonda futhi nithole logic nenjongo yabo. Nokho, lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele ngokuzenzakalelayo uMenzi imizwa yethu siqu kulabo imikhuba okuyizinto angaphandle kithi. Kunalokho, kufanele okungenani zama ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwabo futhi okuhloswe inhloso. Nakuba singase ngeke ngempela avumelane nabo, siyobe okungenani babe nolwazi ukuthi akuzona "izenzo ezingenasisekelo" ngenhloso yokulalela elulaza abantu zithinta.

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